Make it easy for your children to marry

By Mufti Menk

"Make it easy for your children to marry. Making it difficult results in much loss in all directions.


Parents should never disagree to the marriage of their child for reasons not sanctioned by the one who gave them that child. The Almighty.


Some parents are so forceful upon their children that it is as though THEY are the ones getting married! Come on you had ur pick, now give the children a chance.


Parents must guide & advise indeed, but also try to understand where the child is coming from. If the Almighty allows it, allow it!


In the same breath, children who don't involve parents in guiding them to making big decisions such as marriage stand to lose much. 


It is two way traffic! Understand each other and let the final decision be within whatever the Almighty permits. In this way, we would have fulfilled our duty and will not regret"